Where was Adam when the Serpent was with Eve?

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Where was Adam when the Serpent was talking to Eve????

Today, there are many Negativity about Relationships and Marriages.
Why?  Because Nobody wants to play his or her Role.
Why because when there is a problem,  instead of figuring out how to solve the problem,  we would rather use that time in writing down Excuses that we will give when the whole thing crashes.
Like We are failing as Husbands,  we are Failing as Wives,  We are failing as Boyfriends,  we are failing as Girlfriends.

First Quarrel between you two in 3 years that you two have been married,  the two of you are already thinking of calling it quit and are already piling up excuses in your head why it didn't work out.  FIRST QUARREL IN 3 YEARS!!!  FIRST!!!

Amongst the two of you,  obviously one will definitely be at wrong the most but him or her being at fault shouldn't stop you from averting an accident you saw coming.

Every time you remind your Wife/Fiancee that you are the head of this house.  So you are in Charge.
But how come you can not take charge of Shitty Situations that is at the edge of wrecking your home? How come you can not take charge and command peace to be still when the Devil is trying to bring disorder to your happy home?

When things go wrong,  how come you do not come out to say It was my fault,  I take responsibility because I am in charge in this home and it is my duty to make sure everything goes well?

First Time Ever your Wife talked about Divorce,  what do you say?  Well and fine if that's what you want.  Really?  And you say you are the Man of the house and that you are in Charge?  What happened to telling your Wife "as the head of this house,  I do not approve anything of such.  We will sort this out"
Not just saying it but go as far as restoring peace and tranquility to the house and make sure she is smiling again and the thought of divorce is completely erased from her head?

How can you be In Charge and be giving excuses when things don't go well instead of taking responsibility and making sure you fix whatever the problem is afterwards?

The whole world is failing in Marriages and relationships today because the Man that started whole Marriage and relationship thing "Adam" Failed in his relationship with Eve. As if failing was not bad enough,  he started giving excuses.

When God gave Eve to Adam,  he made Adam to understand that Eve will be his help meet and she will be the Flesh of his Flesh and the Bone of his Bone. (Bonding)
They two are one.

So after everything don dabaru finish na,  God kon dey look for Adam,  Adam where u dey?
D next tin Bros AD say Baba G I dey one koro like dat dey hide because mehnnnn as I dey here so.....  Bros I NAKED FINISH!!!
naked ke?  How u take know u naked?  Then came the excuses....... "THE WOMAN WHICH YOU GAVE TO ME MADE ME TO....... "
Ladies and gentlemen that was the beginning of Failures in Marriages and relationships.
Eve was no longer the flesh of his flesh or the bone of his bone Rather "The Woman God gave to him" smh!!!
Who knows if Adam would have made more sense in silence?
Who knows if God could have forgiven us all if Adam has taken full responsibility of d Fuck up wey him fuck up and nor dey try to push am on hin babe and baba Godeh at the same time?

One of the main reason the Devil is able to find a way into our homes is when he notice that there a bit of an issue at home.  Whenever he notice that the Bond in the family currently is not as strong as it is supposed to be,  he will take advantage and use that opportunity to crawl in.

What was Eve doing alone in the Garden?
Do you think if Adam was with her, that Bastard of a Serpent go get mind kon dey follow babe yarn?  Nor even b brief tork ooooooo....
D discussion long for ground because women nor b people to convince within 5 minutes.

Some of us wey we call oursef Men go dey keep Malice with our wife hehehehehe
She go cook you nor go eat,  she go tork to you,  you nor go reply. She feel like resting her head on the shoulder of a man and she get one for house but fear nor go let her because you dey form Idian Amin for your own Wify.
What are you doing?  You are inviting the Serpent to come and keep her company.
Your Wife go send yoy text say baby I love you and you go reply with "how much you dey ask for this time? "
May be she just want make reply her with I love you too my baby.  May be e don tey.
Many other men dey dia wey wan make her feel special but na your own special treatment she want but currently you be direct opposite of wetin she dey look for.
Na Cold season wey require loads of cuddling.  You go go work for morning,  come back 8 for night and then comot for house go meet your friends for Bar to come back home by 12am/1:am and by then you nor want any disturbance because you need to sleep because you need to wake up by 5:30 to start to dey prepare for work. Smh!!!

Everybordee get limit of intimidation wey dia bordee fit take.

Yes your partner misbehave but but but YOU SURE SAY NOR BE YOU PUSH AM??????

If you know say u go wan share the blame or put d blame solely on your partner when things go sour then nor dey shout say na u dey in charge when things dey go on fine.

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#Sir Ruffy Johnson

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